Your body, however, has a much broader definition of stress. TO YOUR BODY, STRESS IS SYNONYMOUS WITH CHANGE. Anything that causes a change in your life causes stress. It doesn't matter if it is a "good" change, or a "bad" change, they are both stress. When you find your dream apartment and get ready to move, that is stress. If you break your leg, that is stress. Good or bad, if it is a CHANGE in your life, it is stress as far as your body is concerned.
Even IMAGINED CHANGE is stress. (Imagining changes is what we call "worrying".) If you fear that you will not have enough money to pay your rent, that is stress. If you worry that you may get fired, that is stress. If you think that you may receive a promotion at work, that is also stress (even though this would be a good change). Whether the event is good or bad, imagining changes in your life is stressful.
Anything that causes CHANGE IN YOUR DAILY ROUTINE is stressful.
Anything that causes CHANGE IN YOUR BODY HEALTH is stressful.
IMAGINED CHANGES are just as stressful as real changes.
Let us look at several types of stress -- ones that are so commonplace that you might not even realize that they are stressful.......
Emotional Stress
When arguments, disagreements, and conflicts cause CHANGES in your personal life -- that is stress.
Illness
Catching a cold, breaking an arm, a skin infection, a sore back, are all CHANGES in your body condition.
Pushing Your Body Too Hard
A major source of stress is overdriving yourself. If you are working (or partying) 16 hours a day, you will have reduced your available time for rest. Sooner or later, the energy drain on your system will cause the body to fall behind in its repair work. There will not be enough time or energy for the body to fix broken cells, or replace used up brain neurotransmitters. CHANGES will occur in your body's internal environment. You will "hit the wall," "run out of gas". If you continue, permanent damage may be done. The body's fight to stay healthy in the face of the increased energy that your are expending is major stress.
Environmental Factors
Very hot or very cold climates can be stressful. Very high altitude may be a stress. Toxins or poisons are a stress. Each of these factors threatens to cause CHANGES in your body's internal environment.
Taking Responsibility for Another Person's Actions
When you take responsibility for another person's actions, CHANGES occur in your life over which you have little or no control. Taking responsibility for another person's actions is a major stressor.
Allergic Stress
Allergic reactions are a part of your body's natural defense mechanism. When confronted with a substance which your body considers toxic, your body will try to get rid of it, attack it, or somehow neutralize it. If it is something that lands in your nose, you might get a runny, sneezy nose. If it lands on your skin, you might get blistery skin. If you inhale it, you'll get wheezy lungs. If you eat it, you may break out in itchy red hives all over your body. Allergy is a definite stress, requiring large changes in energy expenditure on the part of your body's defense system to fight off what the body perceives as a dangerous attack by an outside toxin.
Your Stress Scale
In the following table you can look up representative changes in your life and see how much stress value each of these changes is adding to your life. NOTE ANY ITEM THAT YOU MAY HAVE EXPERIENCED IN THE LAST TWELVE MONTHS. Then, total up your score.
| STRESS |
EVENT VALUES |
| DEATH OF SPOUSE
DIVORCE MENOPAUSE SEPARATION FROM LIVING PARTNER JAIL TERM OR PROBATION DEATH OF CLOSE FAMILY MEMBER OTHER THAN SPOUSE SERIOUS PERSONAL INJURY OR ILLNESS MARRIAGE OR ESTABLISHING LIFE PARTNERSHIP FIRED AT WORK MARITAL OR RELATIONSHIP RECONCILIATION RETIREMENT CHANGE IN HEALTH OF IMMEDIATE FAMILY MEMBER WORK MORE THAN 40 HOURS PER WEEK PREGNANCY OR CAUSING PREGNANCY SEX DIFFICULTIES GAIN OF NEW FAMILY MEMBER BUSINESS OR WORK ROLE CHANGE CHANGE IN FINANCIAL STATE DEATH OF A CLOSE FRIEND (not a family member) CHANGE IN NUMBER OF ARGUMENTS WITH SPOUSE OR LIFE PARTNER MORTGAGE OR LOAN FOR A MAJOR PURPOSE FORECLOSURE OF MORTGAGE OR LOAN SLEEP LESS THAN 8 HOURS PER NIGHT CHANGE IN RESPONSIBILITIES AT WORK TROUBLE WITH IN-LAWS,OR WITH CHILDREN OUTSTANDING PERSONAL ACHIEVEMENT SPOUSE BEGINS OR STOPS WORK BEGIN OR END SCHOOL CHANGE IN LIVING CONDITIONS (visitors in the home, change in roommates, remodeling house) CHANGE IN PERSONAL HABITS (diet, exercise, smoking, etc.) CHRONIC ALLERGIES TROUBLE WITH BOSS CHANGE IN WORK HOURS OR CONDITIONS MOVING TO NEW RESIDENCE PRESENTLY IN PRE-MENSTRUAL PERIOD CHANGE IN SCHOOLS CHANGE IN RELIGIOUS ACTIVITIES CHANGE IN SOCIAL ACTIVITIES (more or less than before) MINOR FINANCIAL LOAN CHANGE IN FREQUENCY OF FAMILY GET-TOGETHERS VACATION PRESENTLY IN WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON MINOR VIOLATION OF THE LAW |
100
60 60 60 60 60 45 45 45 40 40 40 35 35 35 35 35 35 30 30 25 25 25 25 25 25 20 20 20 20 20 20 15 15 15 15 15 15 10 10 10 10 5 |
TOTAL SCORE:ˍˍˍˍˍˍˍˍˍˍˍˍˍˍˍˍˍ
I have asked you to look at the last twelve months of changes in your life. This may surprise you. It is crucial to understand, however, that a major change in your life has effects that carry over for long periods of time. It is like dropping a rock into a pond. After the initial splash, you will experience ripples of stress. And these ripples may continue in your life for at least a year.
So, if you have experienced total stress within the last twelve months of 250 or greater, even with normal stress tolerance, you may be OVERSTRESSED. Persons with Low Stress Tolerance may be OVERSTRESSED at levels as low as 150.
OVERSTRESS will make you sick. Carrying too heavy a stress load is like running your car engine past the red line; or leaving your toaster stuck in the "on" position; or running a nuclear reactor past maximum permissible power. Sooner or later, something will break, burn up, or melt down.
Open soul meditation can help you in overcoming the stress
